This is an effort to present Gujarati culture through photos and videos. The message on this blog will be to build a world family of peace, joy, love, cooperation, sharing the riches of the world, so that the world becomes a happy home for every one. Material meant for training oneself is added regularly. Students of communication can easily make use of it.
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Anger is not your enemy
Don’t try to destroy your anger, transform it into constructive energy, writes THICH NHAT HANH.
To sit is not enough. We have to be at the same time.To be what? To be is to be a something, you cannot be a nothing.To eat, you have to eat something, you cannot just
eat nothing.To be aware is to be aware of something.To be angry is to be angry at something. So to be is to be something, and that something is what is going on: in your body, in your mind, in your feelings, and in the world.
While sitting, you sit and you are. You are what? You are the breathing. Not only the one who breathes —you are the breathing and the smiling.
It is like a television set of one million channels.When you turn the breathing on, you are the breathing. When you turn the irritation on, you are the irritation.You are one with it. Irritation and breathing are not things outside of you.You contemplate them in them, because you are one with them. If I have a feeling of anger, how would I meditate on that? How would I deal with it, as a Buddhist, or as an intelligent person? I would not look upon anger as something foreign to me that I have to fight, to have surgery in order to remove it. I know that anger is me, and I am anger. Nonduality not two. I have to deal with my anger with care, with love, with tenderness, with nonviolence. Because anger is me, I have to tend my anger as I would tend a younger brother or sister, with love, with care, because I myself am anger, I am in it, I am it. In Buddhism we do not consider anger, hatred, greed as enemies we have to fight, to destroy, to annihilate. If we annihilate anger, we annihilate ourselves. Dealing with anger in that way would be like transforming yourself into a battlefield, tearing yourself into parts, one part taking the side of Buddha, and one part taking the side of Mara. If you struggle in that way, you do violence to yourself. If you cannot be compassionate to yourself, you will not be able to be compassionate to others.When we ge angry, we have to produce awareness: “I am angry. Anger is in me. I am anger.”That is the first thing to do.
In the case of a minor irritation, the recognition of the presence of the irritation, along with a smile and a few breaths will usually be enough to transform the irritation into something more positive, like forgiveness, understanding, and love. Irritation is a destructive energy. We cannot destroy the more constructive energy.
Forgiveness is a constructive energy. Understanding is a constructive energy. Suppose you are in the desert, and you only have one glass of muddy water.
You have to transform the muddy water into clear water to drink, you cannot just throw it away. So you let it settle for a while, and clear water will appear. In the same way, we have to convert anger into some kind of energy that is more constructive, because anger is you.Without anger, you have nothing left.That is the work of meditation.
I give the example of a big brother who gets angry at his sister at first and then finds out that she has a fever, and he understands and becomes concerned, and he tries to help her. So the destructive energy of anger, because of understanding, is transformed into the energy of love.Meditation on your anger is first of all to produce awareness of anger, “I am the anger,” and then to look deeply into the nature of anger. Anger is born from ignorance, and is a strong ally of ignorance. Being Peace, Full Circle.
To sit is not enough. We have to be at the same time.To be what? To be is to be a something, you cannot be a nothing.To eat, you have to eat something, you cannot just
eat nothing.To be aware is to be aware of something.To be angry is to be angry at something. So to be is to be something, and that something is what is going on: in your body, in your mind, in your feelings, and in the world.
While sitting, you sit and you are. You are what? You are the breathing. Not only the one who breathes —you are the breathing and the smiling.
It is like a television set of one million channels.When you turn the breathing on, you are the breathing. When you turn the irritation on, you are the irritation.You are one with it. Irritation and breathing are not things outside of you.You contemplate them in them, because you are one with them. If I have a feeling of anger, how would I meditate on that? How would I deal with it, as a Buddhist, or as an intelligent person? I would not look upon anger as something foreign to me that I have to fight, to have surgery in order to remove it. I know that anger is me, and I am anger. Nonduality not two. I have to deal with my anger with care, with love, with tenderness, with nonviolence. Because anger is me, I have to tend my anger as I would tend a younger brother or sister, with love, with care, because I myself am anger, I am in it, I am it. In Buddhism we do not consider anger, hatred, greed as enemies we have to fight, to destroy, to annihilate. If we annihilate anger, we annihilate ourselves. Dealing with anger in that way would be like transforming yourself into a battlefield, tearing yourself into parts, one part taking the side of Buddha, and one part taking the side of Mara. If you struggle in that way, you do violence to yourself. If you cannot be compassionate to yourself, you will not be able to be compassionate to others.When we ge angry, we have to produce awareness: “I am angry. Anger is in me. I am anger.”That is the first thing to do.
In the case of a minor irritation, the recognition of the presence of the irritation, along with a smile and a few breaths will usually be enough to transform the irritation into something more positive, like forgiveness, understanding, and love. Irritation is a destructive energy. We cannot destroy the more constructive energy.
Forgiveness is a constructive energy. Understanding is a constructive energy. Suppose you are in the desert, and you only have one glass of muddy water.
You have to transform the muddy water into clear water to drink, you cannot just throw it away. So you let it settle for a while, and clear water will appear. In the same way, we have to convert anger into some kind of energy that is more constructive, because anger is you.Without anger, you have nothing left.That is the work of meditation.
I give the example of a big brother who gets angry at his sister at first and then finds out that she has a fever, and he understands and becomes concerned, and he tries to help her. So the destructive energy of anger, because of understanding, is transformed into the energy of love.Meditation on your anger is first of all to produce awareness of anger, “I am the anger,” and then to look deeply into the nature of anger. Anger is born from ignorance, and is a strong ally of ignorance. Being Peace, Full Circle.
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Bhakti-Sufi Traditions: Uniting
Humanity
Ram
Puniyani
In contemporary times, religions’ identity is being
used as cover for political agenda. Be it the terrorist violence or the
sectarian nationalism in various parts of the World, religion is used to mask
the underlying politics. While one was talking of separation of religion and politics
many decades earlier, the times have been showing the reverse trends, more so
in South Asia. Globally one came across the news that American President sent
a chador [a ceremonial sheet of cloth] to the annual
observation at the shrine of Khwaja Moinuddin Chishti at Ajmer. (April 2015).
Later one also read (April 22, 2015) that
Sonia Gandhi, Atal Bihari Vajpeyi, and Narendra Modi has also offered chadors
at the shrine.
Keeping the relation
between state, politics and religion apart, it is interesting that some
traditions within religion have appeals cutting across the religious
boundaries. The Sufi and Bhakti tradition in Pakistan-India, South Asia are two
such humane trends from within Islam and Hinduism respectively, which harp more
on unity of humanity as a whole overcoming the sectarian divides. The saints from
these traditions had appeal amongst people of different religions and they were
away from the centers of power, unlike the clergy which was close ally of the
rulers in medieval times. We have seen rich traditions of people like Kabir,
Tukaram, Narsi Mehta, Shankar Dev, Lal Dedh, clearly from within Hindu
tradition, while Nizamuddin Auliya, Moinuddin Chishti, Tajuddin Baba Auliya,
Ajan Pir, Nooruddin Noorani (also known as Nund Rishi) coming from a clear
Islamic Sufi tradition and Satya Pir, Ramdev Baba Pir, having a mixed lineage
where Bhakti and Sufi themselves are deeply intertwined.
Sant Guru Nanak did try a
conscious mixing of the two major religions of India, Hinduism and Islam. He traveled
up to Mecca to learn the wisdom of Islam and went to Kashi to unravel the
spiritual moral aspects of Hinduism. His first follower was Mardan and Miyan
Mir was the one who was respectfully invited to lay the foundations of Golden
Temple; the holy Sikh Shrine. The Guru Granth Sahib has an inclusive approach
to religious wisdom and it takes the verses from Koran, couplets from Kabir and
other Bhakti saints. No wonder people used to say of him ‘Baba Nanak Sant
Fakir, Hindu ka Guru Musalman ka Pir’ (Saint Nanak is sant for Hindus and pir
for Muslims)
In today’s scenario the
global discussion has been centered round religion due to its use in political
sphere. Now the renewed interest in Sufi tradition at one level is heartening. Sufism
has been prominent in South Asia from last ten centuries. Word Sufi means
coarse wool fabric, the type of clothes which were worn by Sufi mystics. It grew
within Shiaism but over time some Sunnis also took to this sect. It has strong streaks of mysticism and gave
no importance to rituals and tried to have understanding of God by transcending
the anthropomorphic understanding of Allah, looking at him more as a spiritual
authority. This is so similar to the
belief held by Bhakti saints also. Many Sufi’s had pantheistic beliefs and they
articulated their values in very humane way.
In the beginning the
orthodox sects started persecuting them but later compromises were struck. The
Sufis formed the orders of roving monks, dervishes. People of all religions in
many countries frequent their shrines, this again is like Bhakti saints, who
have following amongst people of different religions.
On parallel lines Bhakti
is probably the most outstanding example of the subaltern trend in Indian
religious history. The Bhakti saints came from different streams of society,
particularly from low caste. Bhakti opposed the institutionalization of
religion, tried to decentralize it, and declared that religion is a private
matter. It gave respectability to the separation of state power and religion
and merged the concept of God worship with the process of getting knowledge.
Travails of poor people are the focus of bhakti saints’ work. Bhakti traditions
gave respectability to many low castes. This tradition had inclusive approach
towards Muslims as well. This tradition posed a challenge to upper caste
hegemony.
Bhakti tradition
opposed the rituals, hegemony of elite of society. They adopted the languages
more popular with the masses. Also they talked of one God. In India in
particular Hindu Muslim unity has been one of the concerns expressed by many of
the saints from this tradition.
What one needs to
realize is that there are various tendencies with every religion. The humane
one’s as represented by Bhakti and Sufi are the ones’ which united Humanity and
harped on morality-spirituality of religions. The intolerant tendencies have
been usurped by political forces for their political agenda. In sub continent
during the freedom movement the declining sections of society, Rajas, Nawabs,
Land lords came up with Muslim and Hindu Communalism to begin with. This nationalism
in the name of religion had nothing to do with morality of religions. It was
use of religion’s identity for political goals.
In the national movements we had people like Gandhi, Maulana Abul Kalam
Azad who were religious but opposed to religious nationalism.
The essence of Sufi and
Bhakti tradition are reminders to us that spirituality, morality part of the
religion has been undermined in the current times. The inclusive-humane nature
of these traditions needs to be upheld and the divisive-exclusionary versions of
religions have to be ignored for better future of humanity.
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